No relationship is perfect . How can it be; when we are imperfect ourselves . Initially everyone puts their best foot forward and forgets about the other one waiting for its turn . To walk through the life , to make a relationship work ; never underestimate the existence of other foot . For it’s role ultimately decides the destiny of the relationship. We are and we cannot be at our best at all times depending upon our situations, problems, circumstances, state of mind etc. Though it’s always advisable to observe stability of mind in all circumstances . But we are humans . We commit mistakes .
The role of this other foot at trying times should be one that has the ability to provide balance rather than making the relationship fall .
But how is this possible?
Instead of controlling things over which we have no control ; control one’e mind . When one’s mind and emotions are in control ; situations become easier to handle . Do not force oneself into making hasty decisions ; they might prove disastrous . Instead concentrate one’s focus and attention on first calming the disturbed mind . Every problem comes with a solution and if it does not ;then one does have to pay attention to it for long . For solutions to such problems are hidden in time and eventually resolve on its own .Negative situations can be reversed into favorable one if one has positive outlook . Do not fall weak.
Other important aspect is how much willing we are to keep and work out in a relationship . In the beginning ; everything looks rosy and picture perfect for both the parties put their best foot forward . But time spares none . Everyone goes through ups and downs in life . Not all days are same. But one who has a positive mindset is able to overcome all hurdles in a way .
Relationship needs to be nurtured and cared for at all times . And to make it work both parties need to keep both their feet firmly and walk in the right direction making it blissful and everlasting.
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